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Post by brigitte c. welcester on Apr 2, 2011 8:38:51 GMT -5
to whomever is reading this,
I can't believe that this year would be this crazy. First off with being at a completely new school and now being so torn on who I should be with. I'm dating an amazing guy who cares for me and doesn't force me to do anything, but then came this other guy. I know it will sound bad, but we ended up kissing. It felt so right and better than any kiss I've had with my boyfriend. I feel so torn. I think I'm falling in love with this other guy, but i could hurt my current boyfriend. Plus I have no idea if this other guy even loves me. Why risk losing what I have for a 50/50 chance with this other guy. Somebody help me!
from miss confused |
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Post by columbus f. thruston on Apr 2, 2011 22:21:22 GMT -5
dear miss confused,
what a hell of a year, huh? i'm willing to help, even though i'm a complete stranger for you and all that jazz. do you know the person that you're falling in love with well? well enough to know that he won't break your heart? well, i think that you should risk losing them, i know, it sounds bad but you should tell the person that you're falling in love with the truth. and if he really does love you, he won't mind and would like to be with you. sometimes it's great to risk it all for your loved ones. i'm sorry, i'm not that good in giving advice.
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Post by brigitte c. welcester on Apr 2, 2011 22:33:38 GMT -5
dear friend,
I've known him since I was a child, till he hurt me and his sister over the fact of his friends bulling him. For the past five years I've believed that he hated me and his sister, but everything changed the minute we were locked in that classroom for a few hours. I wish i could trust him to not break my heart, but he shattered mine five years ago. I want to tell him so bad, but i can't hurt my boyfriend that way. Plus I've known the man I'm falling for since I was a child, and I'm best friends with his sister. He probally thinks of me like a sister.
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Post by columbus f. thruston on Apr 3, 2011 8:52:57 GMT -5
dear miss confused,
whoa, whoa, wait! so er, the guy that you /are/ in love with left you but then he came back so you guys were stuck together then it instantly happened!? whoaaaaa, that's eh. intense? well, he probably doesn't think of you as a sister, what happened when you were locked in the classroom anyways? i know i'm a total stranger and all, but i will definitely listen and not judge you or anything like that.
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Post by brigitte c. welcester on Apr 3, 2011 10:02:38 GMT -5
 Dear friend,
It's so confusing since there are two guys involved and I love my current boyfriend and falling for this other guy. Let's call my current boyfriend R and the man I'm falling for D. So I was in one of the classrooms with a piano. I just couldn't take hearing D's sister complain all the time, so I was working on a song and just singing my heart out. Then out of no where he shows up. Now keep in mind I've avoided him for the past five years and this would have been the last year I'd have to avoid him at school since he's graduating this year. Well, I continued to just sing my song not knowing that he was the intruder. Finally I noticed him there, and we started to get in a heated debate about what he had done to me. I was fine with hating him back, and then he just changed everything.
See what happened is his second year, meaning his sister and mine's first year, he came up to me and told me he hated me and never wanted to see me again. This caused me to end up crying my eyes out. See that summer I had finally came to terms with the fact I had feelings for him. Yes, I liked him back in the day as well and then he hurt me. That in turn lead to the worst memory I'll ever have. That was the day I was locked in the library for the whole night. So being locked in that classroom bought back bad memories. Ever since he said he never wanted to see me again, I've been keeping away from him and running anytime I saw him. I was doing a great job at it till we were locked in that room.
He started to talk about how his friends teased him and that is why he did what he did. We kept fighting over this with me thinking it was a stupid reason, and I got very close to him which led to a hug at first. I almost didn't want to move from that hug, but my mind kept saying that he wasn't worthy of my friendship yet. He really hurt me back in the day. More things happened and somehow we just ended up kissing. I felt so bad cause I'm with R and I love him too. Also somehow in that room I finally told someone about what his friends had did to me. I hadn't told anyone and somehow it just came out of my mouth. Ugh my life is so messed up.
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Post by columbus f. thruston on Apr 5, 2011 7:54:49 GMT -5
 dear miss confused,
a love triangle sounds rather interesting yet frustrating in the same time. what 'd' did is rather terrible, but seeing as he got teased by his friends and whatever his friends do, i personally thing you should take it slow with the whole love situation.
i say, well, i don't know if my opinion matters that much but i think you should reunite with 'd', no, i don't think you should break up with your current boyfriend for him but i think you should catch up with your old friend. how is he doing, open up to him, or him opening up to you. that's a start for a great friendship because as i read your letter it seemed like you both had great chemistry, friendship-wise.
sometimes, as i said before, ms confused, getting hurt is worth it for the ones you love the most. i'm going to quote someone random, so, er, i'll go. "what kills you make you stronger." i think that quote fits the situation. now, as for 'd', maybe, i dunno. i'm not fully aware of the situation so..
if i may ask you, miss confused, what year are you in? if you don't mind me asking of course.
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Post by brigitte c. welcester on Apr 5, 2011 18:23:21 GMT -5
Dear friend,
I know I need to slow down this tumbling road I'm on, and I plan on it. It's not like I wanted to kiss him at all, it just happened and now that it has, my mind can't think of anything else. This love triangle,by no means, is interesting. I bet if you were in this situation you wouldn't find it interesting at all.
I'd love to just be there with him. He is alone at this new school, and I think his only friends graduated already. I have no idea if he has any new friends in his new house at all. All I know is that he was sorted before me, and at the time I thought he hated me. I prayed, as I sat with the hat on my head, for any house b7ut Gryffindor. Not trying to say that house sucks, in case your one of them, but I just couldn't handle being forced with him. It is way different than the school I come from, which I won't say in case it gives it away as to the identity of 'd'. I have to stay away from him. I know it sounds mean, but every time I kiss 'r' I think of 'd' and how his kiss made me feel more alive than 'r''s have.'
Is it worth having to be tortured everyday for? Will just being around him burn like a fire inside me? How could I go on pretending to love 'r' when in truth I'm falling in love 'd'! I know that quote as well, but would it be good to hurt myself in that way for my relationship with 'r' and my friendship with 'd'. Am I just lying to myself about loving 'r'? I'm asking way to many questions almost like your going to know the answers to them. You don't have to answer any of them at all. I'll understand.
No I don't mind you asking at all. I'm currently a sixth year forced here at hogwarts due to the destruction of my beloved school. The man I'm with, 'r', is a seventh year from Hogwarts, and of course, 'd'd is from my school as well. Both these guys graduate this year. You seem like a trustworthy person, so if you promise to keep anything I say a secret, I'll sign these in my name.
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Post by columbus f. thruston on Apr 8, 2011 21:49:36 GMT -5
dear miss confused,
oh, wow, i think you should tell 'd' the truth. i know that sounds bad, but you should tell him the truth before anything gets out of hand or before you lose the both of them. sometimes telling lies is better than saying the truth but in this case, you should tell 'r' how you really feel - which means the falling in love thing with 'd' as well.
i see what you mean, i have a loved one as well. well, i thought i had one anyways. i was in love with her but then things went down hill as i found her - cheating on me? but i never talked about it and left it just like that, but i lost her at the end. i became a mess, really, but now i've recovered.
i'm sorry if my answers to your questions aren't good enough, i just hope that i helped a little bit.
oh! i graduate this year as well, i'll miss it though, school. it's like my second home other then my actual home - if that made sense? i love everything here, the grounds, the black lake, visits to hogsmeade and what not even though some of my previous years was pure hell. i promise to keep everything you said a secret, i'll sign this with my name now, little miss confused.
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Post by brigitte c. welcester on Apr 19, 2011 17:47:24 GMT -5
Dear Columbus,
Your right. I should tell them both whats going on, once I figure out what is going on. I'm still lost in this whole love thing going on. They both deserve to know whats going on and if I find out that neither of them want me, that's fine too.
I can feel your pain. It must have been tough going through that who ordeal. I feel as if I'll end up in that same boat if I can't figure out what is going on with my life. I know that I'm falling more in love with 'd' every minute ans starting to find the time I spend with 'r' to be tiring and boring. I think I should dump 'r'.
You have been a big help. Really, I mean it.
I miss Beauxbatons as well. It was my home almost like Hogwarts is your home. I feel so lost in this school, but I'm learning the school day by day. Beauxbaton's was great unless you count the whole hiding from 'd' day by day thing. Thank you for just being here for me. It's helped a lot.
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